and ...A CHRISTMAS TODAY...
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It has been a tradition in our family---dating back seven
or eight decades---to do the big Christmas-present-
opening and related activities on Christmas Eve night.
At Pop's Place (he was my granddad), SW of Lamesa,
Texas a few miles, all manner of happy things were
going on. The big Christmas dinner was always held
the next day, on Christmas Day.
A younger uncle was charged with getting all the little
kids together, and telling them stories they had heard
many times before--- "The Three Billy Goats Gruff,"
"Little Red Ridng Hood," "The Troll," and "Little Black
Sambo."
We went outside to shoot fireworks and being city
dwellers---with our eyes dulled by electric lights---
were amazed to see the incredibly dark, black
sky...filled with millions of bright, vibrant stars,
all the while breathing in that pure fresh frosty
Christmas night air.
We shot up that big heavy paper sack full of fire-
works which Mom had bought us out of her egg
money. She stashed that sack, each year, in the
same corner of the living room---out of the way---
there by the big ceramic white swan which she had
bought at a roadside stand, just outside Mineral
Wells...when returning home from a family reunion
in the piney East Texas country.
These fireworks, maybe bought even on Black
Friday (before that inane day was even dream't of)
may have cost her five bucks....anything for the
grandkids!
What fireworks were in that big sack, which likely
would cost thirty dollars today? One skyrocket,
two Roman candles, some erupting spray fountains,
twirling streakers, Chinese firecrackers, red "Baby
Giants," some "torpedoes, and lots of sparklers.
On the farm there were plenty fresh eggs and egg
nog was a traditional holiday drink, to say the least,
and high priority with Pop. In the kitchen the ladies
had two bowls "working," and Pop lurking.
The kids were not supposed to notice the two bowls
or Pop as he clandestinely (he thought) drew a bottle
of Turkey Knob from somewhere in his bib overalls,
and flavored one bowl liberally!
I was a witness...I saw it all---as a kid, I never missed
anything...repeat....anything!
It came time later in the evening to open the presents.
All gathered in a circle around the living room using
every chair that could be scrounged and brought in.
Times (the Great Depression, which hadn't really ended
yet), were tough, and people had to be a
bit frugal with gift purchasing and giving. The gifts
reflected the times.
The farm boys might have received an Old Spice
Shaving kit, a subscription to LIFE magazine, or
a Pendleton wool shirt, maybe a western belt and
buckle, or even cowboy boots. A really much-loved
gift was a Stetson hat or even a Borsalino, out of
Italy. Parker 51 pens were popular if the boys were
heading off to college, or the military.
Little boys were more interested in what the men got
than women's things...which might have been a
Sunbeam Mixmaster, or something like that.
NOW, TODAY'S CHRISTMASES----last night we read
memories of previous Yules, some long ago, from
Donna's journal. Brian brought his concert guitar,
and he can play almost anything...and we sang: some
Simon and Garfunkel, Peter, Paul, and Mary, Crosby,
Stills, Nash,and Young----
We sang "Where have you been Mrs. Robinson?" We
sang "If you miss the train I'm on, you will know that
I have gone...you can hear the whistle blow a hundred
miles," and "The answer my friend is blowing in the
wind." And oh, what harmony!
The big hit, which all people would have enjoyed, (as
we did), was "In The Village The Lion Sleeps Tonight.."
"A Weemaway, a Weemaway, ah..ah..ah...a Weemaway,"
and my boys and I were all singing in falsetto... Oh,
it was GRAND!
It was break time...and food time...and the choice was
Mexican---posole, tamales, enchiladas, tacos, chili
con queso and guacamole dip...and what else to drink
but ice-cold Diet Pepsis!
Then it was back to the tree for us and Silver Bells, I'm
Dreaming of a White Christmas, Chestnuts Roasting, and
Little Drummer Boy.
We sang a lot of carols, including Joy To the World, The
First Noel, Silent Night, and O Come, All Ye Faithful.
The same two grandkids who read the Christmas Story,
years ago when they could barely read---now in their
twenties, read it once again, with a flow and feeling...
And then it was time to open the presents...the moment
all had been anticipating.
At Pop's Place Christmas, in the late thirties and early
forties, there was never singing....people didn't do it
much then...and WWII was coming on....
One thing in this world is certain---CHANGE---times
change...people change...Christmases change...but
the REASON for Christmas...never changes.
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By Mil
Christmas Day, 2015
MERRY CHRISTMAS